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Saying Goodbye to Our Best Friend

What Jake taught me in his too short life

Frank McKinley
4 min readJul 13, 2019
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This afternoon my daughter called me, bawling.

“Daddy, Jake isn’t feeling well. He’s throwing up and his breathing is shallow. I think he’s dying.”

My chest tightened as I listened and tried in vain to console her.

We were an hour away

My son works with me. I knew he’d want to say goodbye should the worst happen.

By the time he clocked out, his phone rang.

I was waiting at the car for him to arrive. His face told the whole story.

“Jake’s dead.” Tears flowed from his eyes like a waterfall.

We men are pretty tough. We don’t cry for just anything. But this hurt worse than being the loser in a boxing match that just went 15 rounds.

I felt some moisture in my left eye.

As we drove home, my son and sat in silence for a few minutes. Slowly, we recounted the good things Jake gave us.

He loved unconditionally

Drew said, “No matter how bad a day I’ve had, Jake could make it better.”

When we came out to see him, he’d run out of his house and wag his tail nonstop. He sniff…

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Frank McKinley
Frank McKinley

Written by Frank McKinley

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