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Why Writers Give Up
3 truths that will help you press on through it all
Writers give up writing because they have a low frustration tolerance.
Criticism Kills Creativity
If you’ve ever poured your heart into something only to have someone pick it apart, it’s easy to give up.
Think about this for a moment.
Will you let one person, or even a few, be the judge and jury that decides whether your writing is priceless or worthless? Or will you recognize that for the critic, your writing isn’t a good fit?
There’s a world of difference between the two. Never forget that anyone’s response to your writing is at best, an opinion.
And one more thing… while it’s easy to ride on the good feelings excessive praise can give you, remember those are just opinions, too.
If your writing helps one person, then it was worth whatever it took to get it on the page.
Brace Yourself for Rejection
J.K. Rowling’s first Harry Potter novel was rejected 12 times by publishers.
Nobody learns how to walk, ride a bike, or roller skate after one lesson. It takes days, weeks, maybe even months of practice, refining, and persevering. Soon the…